Getting married

[fitbird]

I'm getting married soon (Sept 2008) and I'm feeling rather uneasy about the whole thing. Well that isn't actually true. I love my boyfriend and I think he is the one, if there is such a thing. But my framily (namely my mum) has started to bully her way into the plans and the whole thing is becoming rather stressful to the point where I'm really not enjoying the experience of planning MY perfect wediing anymore. I'm at a point when I'd rather call the whole thing off rather than but up with this the for next 6 months.

[Stacey, not Gavin]

One thing struck me about your post ...

You wrote: "Well that isn't actually true. I love my boyfriend and I think he is the one, if there is such a thing."

You think he is the one? I think you should know by now love. I'm not suggesting you rethink this ... oh hell, yes I am! Marriage these days seems all to free and easy for some. I think the idea that Britney Spears can get an annulment of her 'vows' suggests to others that marriage is no longer for life but until things get a little rocky.

[albangura]

I have one of those who makes me feel small. I want to commit, but every saturday he forgets i'm here, and is off with the lads to upton park. Evenings are spent in front of matchof the day. He suggested foreplay, but ended up doing carlton cole celebrations whilst i watched.